Sunday, June 5, 2011
I love my sibs..
It’s wonderful how my sibs and I can talk now about almost anything and be each other’s confidant when before, we were each other’s constant enemies. :) We give each other advices, we cover up for each other, we make each other laugh, we discuss things over midnight snacks. And though we don’t tell that we love each other, we know we do. :)
What I look for..
sabi ni Bo, write down the traits you're looking for your "The One". so eto ang mga lists ko!
- Someone who has great sense of humor is a major major turn on for me. Kasi ako yung tipo ng tao na mababaw lang kaligayahan. Saka gusto ko laging tumatawa. Gusto ko masaya!
- Someone who is God-fearing. Syempre gusto ko yung taong may faith kay God. Importante yun sakin! Gusto ko si God yung Center namin!
- Someone who loves his family. Kasi ako family oriented. Gusto ko pag naging kami, maging close kami sa pamilya ng isa't isa. Saka sabi din nila you will know the real character of a person on how he deals with her family. Saka malalaman mo kung pano ka ittreat nung lalake on how he treats her mother and female siblings.
- Someone who has a sense of responsibility. Gusto ko yung taong may direksyon sa buhay. Yung may pangarap, yung may stable na trabaho para pag nagkapamilya kakayanin namin pareho!
- Someone who is nice. Hindi naman sobrang bait, yung sakto lang. Ayoko sa mayabang.
- Someone who will continously date me pag kami na. Yung sweet pa din kahit hindi na nanliligaw.
Ako na choosy! Hahahaha
- Someone who has great sense of humor is a major major turn on for me. Kasi ako yung tipo ng tao na mababaw lang kaligayahan. Saka gusto ko laging tumatawa. Gusto ko masaya!
- Someone who is God-fearing. Syempre gusto ko yung taong may faith kay God. Importante yun sakin! Gusto ko si God yung Center namin!
- Someone who loves his family. Kasi ako family oriented. Gusto ko pag naging kami, maging close kami sa pamilya ng isa't isa. Saka sabi din nila you will know the real character of a person on how he deals with her family. Saka malalaman mo kung pano ka ittreat nung lalake on how he treats her mother and female siblings.
- Someone who has a sense of responsibility. Gusto ko yung taong may direksyon sa buhay. Yung may pangarap, yung may stable na trabaho para pag nagkapamilya kakayanin namin pareho!
- Someone who is nice. Hindi naman sobrang bait, yung sakto lang. Ayoko sa mayabang.
- Someone who will continously date me pag kami na. Yung sweet pa din kahit hindi na nanliligaw.
Ako na choosy! Hahahaha
When will it be me,,.
Sometimes, I ask that question, "When will it be me?". When will I be the one someone's dreaming of? When will I be happy because someone special is making me happy? When will I be in a relationship? pak! Sometimes, I also keep on questioning myself, "Is there something wrong with me? Why does it took so long for that someone to come into my life?" Then, I realized that maybe God is really preparing me for the best. Not really someone who is perfect but maybe someone who is really my best match!:) Someone who I may have my share of differences but we'll learn from each other, someone who may have my share of similarities and we will enjoy each and every day that we're together. Someone who is God fearing and through our faith in God, we'll last forever. Someone who has great sense of humor, who will not make any day that we're together a dull moment. Dear Lord, when he will be coming??? hahaha.. Could he come here now because I want to spend forever with him!:)
On hiatus mode on Facebook
I realized that everyday, every single day, I can't help myself to open my facebook, check it and post something on it. Yesterday, it just popped up on my mind na "Uy Germaine, adik ka na sa facebook! Post ka ng post!". So starting today, I will be on "on hiatus mode". Meaning I will minimize the times I will open it, post and comment on it! Gusto ko nga ideactivate eh pero mukang mahirap! On minimal use na lang for the meantime. LOL!
Another reason is, yung taong rason kung bakit ako nagpopost dun eh meron ng girlfriend! pak! Ayoko muna makita! (drama rama mode?)
Bye FB for now.. I will miss you and I know you'll miss me too!:)
Another reason is, yung taong rason kung bakit ako nagpopost dun eh meron ng girlfriend! pak! Ayoko muna makita! (drama rama mode?)
Bye FB for now.. I will miss you and I know you'll miss me too!:)
Thursday, June 2, 2011
Happily Single!
“I’m happily single. Because God is with me, I’m complete. I’m whole. I’m happy! And God is guiding me to my best path. God’s goodness and blessings follow me all the days of my life. He is guiding my decisions. And I believe I’m being prepared for marriage. I’m being trained for parenthood. I’m not just searching for the right partner, I’m also preparing myself to be the right partner for my future spouse. By becoming the best person I can become, I’m attracting that special person into my life. My future is in God’s big hands. He is now filling my future with abundance, joy, and love.”
How to Find your One True Love
Step 1: Take Responsibility for Finding Your One True Love
Be deliberate about getting married. Don't give God the Responsibility He gave you.
So I shall get up and go through the city; in the streets and in the squares, I shall seek my sweetheart (Song of Songs 3:2)
Call to Action
1. Form a Support team around you.
2. Grow your Character (be a better person).
3. Get Emotionally Healthy
4. Know Your Self - Fo you to knwo what you want and dont want.
Step #2: Know What's Stopping You Inside
Identify your Internal Blocks and Self-Imposed Prisons of Fears
"he who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways, will receive anything from the Lord. (James 1:6-7)
1. Are you the Mark or Mindy the Mouse? The Problem of Low Self-Worth and the Fear of Rejection.
2. Are you Carl the Family Crutch? The Problem of Enmeshed Family Relationships and the Fear of Guilt.
3. Are You Tess and Trisha the Traumatized? The Problem of Traumas of Childhood and the Fear of More Pain
4. Are You Jim the Jellyman? The Problem of No Backbone and the Fear of Commitment.
5. Are You Belle the Brokenhearted? The Problem of Being Attached to Past Hurts and the Fear of Hurting Again.
6. Are You the Ludy the Luggage Lady? The Problem of Being Attached to Dead-End Relationships and the Fear of Losing Even That.
7. Are you Danny and Doreen the Distant? The Problem of Isolation and the Fear of Intimacy
8. Are You Janice the Undecided? The Problem of Being Attached to Limbo and the Fear of Making Mistakes
Above issues are not profitable - Spiritually, socially, financially, emotionally, and physically. Remove your inner blocks in your life
Heal what needs to be heald
Work on your self, be a better person, that makes all prettier.
And then move on and share your blessedness.
Step #3: Talk to Lots of Gentlemen/Ladies
Don't search for a Spouse. Search Instead for Self - Knowledge, Fun and Friends.
"Let your acquaintances be many . . . . " (Sirach 6:6)
This is to correct the Myth #2: There's One Person Out There Meant for Me.
Call to Action :
Action #1. Go to Where the GOOD Guys/Gals Go.
Action #2. Clarify Your Purpose - Your Talking to Friends, Not to a Potential Spouse.
Five Fantastic Reasons:
1. You'll Grow as a Person.
2. You'll get to know yourself more and be a better person by getting feedback from emotionally healthy friends
3. You get to understand the opposite sex more.
4. You meet lots of New Friends.
5. You'll have a good time.
Action #3. Aim to Talk to Three Single Men/Ladies a Week
Action #4. Through Your Actions, Tell Single Men/Ladies "It's Okay. You Can Talk to me" Smile
Action #5. Get Involved in Projects Together. You will get to know the person more in time of stress and celebrate fruitfulness together.
STEP #4: Have as Many Friendly Dates as Humanly as Possible
You don't have to call them dates. Call them chats and chill over a meal or cup of coffee. Have dates with your family and friends, to get to know people more and yourself more.
"For from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks" Matthew 12:34
Six Rules of Friendly Dates
1. You Remove the Romance from the Picture.
2. You Don't Use Your Potential - Husband/wife Checklist
3. You have Friendly Dates with Almost Anyone at Least Once or Twice.
4. You Commit Not to Enter into Any Exclusive Relationship for Six Months.
5. Accept That There Are Still Risks of Getting Hurt.
6. You Decide by the Second Date If You Wish to Continue Meeting or Not
For detailed explanation, please buy the book.
FYI : endorsement is purely voluntary
Happy Dating and GOD Bless
Be deliberate about getting married. Don't give God the Responsibility He gave you.
So I shall get up and go through the city; in the streets and in the squares, I shall seek my sweetheart (Song of Songs 3:2)
Call to Action
1. Form a Support team around you.
2. Grow your Character (be a better person).
3. Get Emotionally Healthy
4. Know Your Self - Fo you to knwo what you want and dont want.
Step #2: Know What's Stopping You Inside
Identify your Internal Blocks and Self-Imposed Prisons of Fears
"he who doubts is like a wave of the sea that is driven and tossed by the wind. For that person must not suppose that a double-minded man, unstable in all his ways, will receive anything from the Lord. (James 1:6-7)
1. Are you the Mark or Mindy the Mouse? The Problem of Low Self-Worth and the Fear of Rejection.
2. Are you Carl the Family Crutch? The Problem of Enmeshed Family Relationships and the Fear of Guilt.
3. Are You Tess and Trisha the Traumatized? The Problem of Traumas of Childhood and the Fear of More Pain
4. Are You Jim the Jellyman? The Problem of No Backbone and the Fear of Commitment.
5. Are You Belle the Brokenhearted? The Problem of Being Attached to Past Hurts and the Fear of Hurting Again.
6. Are You the Ludy the Luggage Lady? The Problem of Being Attached to Dead-End Relationships and the Fear of Losing Even That.
7. Are you Danny and Doreen the Distant? The Problem of Isolation and the Fear of Intimacy
8. Are You Janice the Undecided? The Problem of Being Attached to Limbo and the Fear of Making Mistakes
Above issues are not profitable - Spiritually, socially, financially, emotionally, and physically. Remove your inner blocks in your life
Heal what needs to be heald
Work on your self, be a better person, that makes all prettier.
And then move on and share your blessedness.
Step #3: Talk to Lots of Gentlemen/Ladies
Don't search for a Spouse. Search Instead for Self - Knowledge, Fun and Friends.
"Let your acquaintances be many . . . . " (Sirach 6:6)
This is to correct the Myth #2: There's One Person Out There Meant for Me.
Call to Action :
Action #1. Go to Where the GOOD Guys/Gals Go.
Action #2. Clarify Your Purpose - Your Talking to Friends, Not to a Potential Spouse.
Five Fantastic Reasons:
1. You'll Grow as a Person.
2. You'll get to know yourself more and be a better person by getting feedback from emotionally healthy friends
3. You get to understand the opposite sex more.
4. You meet lots of New Friends.
5. You'll have a good time.
Action #3. Aim to Talk to Three Single Men/Ladies a Week
Action #4. Through Your Actions, Tell Single Men/Ladies "It's Okay. You Can Talk to me" Smile
Action #5. Get Involved in Projects Together. You will get to know the person more in time of stress and celebrate fruitfulness together.
STEP #4: Have as Many Friendly Dates as Humanly as Possible
You don't have to call them dates. Call them chats and chill over a meal or cup of coffee. Have dates with your family and friends, to get to know people more and yourself more.
"For from the fullness of the heart the mouth speaks" Matthew 12:34
Six Rules of Friendly Dates
1. You Remove the Romance from the Picture.
2. You Don't Use Your Potential - Husband/wife Checklist
3. You have Friendly Dates with Almost Anyone at Least Once or Twice.
4. You Commit Not to Enter into Any Exclusive Relationship for Six Months.
5. Accept That There Are Still Risks of Getting Hurt.
6. You Decide by the Second Date If You Wish to Continue Meeting or Not
For detailed explanation, please buy the book.
FYI : endorsement is purely voluntary
Happy Dating and GOD Bless
Monday, May 30, 2011
Miss ko na sya..
Posible pa lang mamiss mo yung taong hindi mo pa naman nakikita. I mean kilala mo lang pero wala kayong personal closeness sa isa't isa.
All of a sudden all I think about is him. Chos! Hindi na sya madalas maglike at comment sa posts ko sa fb! :( Meron na kaya syang girlfriend? Naiisip din kaya ko nun? Hay leche! parang hayskul lang eh noh!
All of a sudden all I think about is him. Chos! Hindi na sya madalas maglike at comment sa posts ko sa fb! :( Meron na kaya syang girlfriend? Naiisip din kaya ko nun? Hay leche! parang hayskul lang eh noh!
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